I call Bo my boyfriend when I’m giving tours at work. My boyfriend, the actor, i say. When men call, email, and solicit me on the street, I tell them: no thanks, I have a boyfriend, he’s Matt Damon’s body double and we’re veryyy serious.
If Bo ever heard me say that, he’d crack up. We are the furthest thing from that. Sure-when we’re together we get along well and we have a lot in common, but to ever call our relationship a ‘relationship’ would be absurd and dellusional. (hello–do you know me at all?)
Convienient, is what it is. There’s an understanding, though we don’t really need to define it with words. He’s serious about his career, and I’m serious about…well…finding a husband. Many months ago I informed Bo that we were never getting married. He said, you never know, and I said, no really, never. But we sleep together. (yes–sleep only). We haven’t had sex since the week we met. Honestly, its not like that with us.
I think maybe we could seriously date in the future though, when he’s more settled and I’m mature enough for a relationship. And if he convinces me he’s totally straight–that has a lot of influence on things as well.
Side note: my mother called, from Jamaica, specifically one day, out of the blue, to tell me she thinks Bo is gay.
It’s been two weeks since I’ve seen Bo my boyfriend, however, because he got pulled into a new Matt movie, unexpectedly. Wow–my boyfriend is famous. Bo is such a safe boy for me. The more I type this, the more I think he really is gay.
LOL! mommies are the best. yeh, last year my mommy call from Jamaica to tell me the guy I seeing here cheating on me. maybe he is bisexual.